A Special Visitor

Next week, a very special person is coming to visit you at your home.

This person is very important to you.  You respect him/her a lot.  Their opinion is important to you.  You like and admire this person.

For example:

• The President 
• Jesus Christ
• Your boss
• Gandhi
• Adelle 
• Buddha
• The Queen of England
• Your mother-in-law
• Madonna
• Russell Crowe
• Michael Pollan
• Gloria Steinem
• Benazir Bhutto

Would you tidy the house?  Clean?  How would tell your children to behave?  How would you dress the day that person arrived?  How would you greet that person at the door?  How would you speak to them?

Question:

Is this how you prepare for your hubby?  Every day?

Keep your house tidy and clean.
Teach your children manners.
Dress nicely.
Greet your hubby at the door when he comes home, or go to him when you come home.
Speak sweetly and kindly to him.
Treat him like a King.
 

Panties in His Lunchbox

Today, I started a list of the sexy little things that HubbyHubby loves:

• putting my sexy lace panties in his lunchbox--surprise!
• wearing lace panties with his white T-shirt at bedtime while we sit next to each other.
• thanking him for making the bed this morning.
• rubbing his shoulders at night.
• sending him a "Thinking of you" text.
• sending him a "Thanks for the fun weekend" email.
• putting a "You are the BEST!" note in his lunchbox.

Question:

What is on your list of sexy little things that your HubbyHubby loves?

Try the panties. I dare you.

"Submit"... WHAT?!

The word is "submit."

I know, I know. This is a CRAZY word.  But let me explain...

For me, "submit" means:

loving obedience by proper arrangement and deliberate decision.

Let's say that again. Submit means to lovingly obey, by a proper arrangement that you have with your hubby, and it takes a deliberate decision. 

For me, I deliberately decide to lovingly obey HubbyHubby according to the proper arrangement that we have agreed upon.

Example: Big G (my 11-year-old daughter) wants to listen to music on an iPod with headphones. I don't think it's a good idea.

HubbyHubby and I discuss this for a few days.  HubbyHubby says, "Just 10 songs, and after her chores and homework are done. Download some old rock. Include some Bob Marley, too." Huh? Okay. I lovingly obey. Big G is super-happy. Chores are done. She's ahead in her homework.

Because of that, I didn't drive HubbyHubby nuts by being adamant, obstinate and belligerent. 

What did I do? I submitted to my Hubby. We did not do what the Joneses do. We did what we worked out according to our proper arrangement. And I made a deliberate decision to follow his lead.

"To submit is an experience beyond words. It's the greatest honor a wife will ever have, and only she can fulfill that responsibility with her husband. There is no substitute--only the wife can be submissive to her husband in this category of life and to this depth." -- Donna Martindale, 1994

"Submit" doesn't happen overnight.  Sleep on it.  Think about it.  Comment on it.  Ask questions about it.

I encourage you to choose one issue to consider submitting to your hubby about.

How to Avoid an Argument

1.  Walk away and count to 10.

2.  Ask yourself, "Is this the hill I want to die on?" In other words, "Is this worth the fight?"

3.  When you're calm, ask hubby a question (in a kind, sweet tone). Asking a question allows hubby to think and respond. When he gives you an answer, say, "Okay." If you need more information, ask him another question. Sometimes, my tone is so sweet, HubbyHubby will actually laugh.

Some issues don't get immediately resolved, and they'll need to be put off until the two of you can revisit it.

In the End:

In the end, hubby makes the final call, and you will be blessed because you let him be the captain of the ship.

My Knight in Shining Armor

Camping in the Rocky Mountain National Forest is fun. Sleeping in a tent in the middle of the woods is scary. There are all kinds of creepy noises and sounds at night.

Every time I heard a noise, I grabbed HubbyHubby's arm and squeezed tight.  Sometimes I would ask, "What's that?" or "Did you hear that?"

A husband loves to feel that he is his wife's protector--brave and fearless. Think of the iconic story of a knight on a white horse, slaying the dragon, and rescuing the fair maiden. That's hot.


This Week:

How can you recognize your hubby as your Knight in Shining Armor?

Here are some ideas:

1.  Your hubby handles some intense financial situation and fills you in on the details.  Thank him for saving you and taking on such a huge task.

2.  You have a flat tire and hubby rescues you.  Tell him he is your Knight in Shining Armor.

3.  He puts in a long, hard day at work.  When he comes home, thank him for working so hard for you and the family.

4.  He jumps up in the middle of the night when the smoke detector batteries fail and the unit is giving a warning beep.  When he get's back in bed, squeeze him tight and say, "You are my hero."

5.  Hubby fixes something around the house or in the car.  Wrap your arms around him, give him a kiss and say, "Baby, you're the best. Thank you for fixing the__________."

6.  The dishwasher breaks and floods the kitchen floor.  Your hubby is on the phone immediately to have the maintenance man come and fix it.  Thank your hubby for handling the problem and saving the day.

"Daddy's home!"

When our kiddos were teeny-tiny, HubbyHubby used to drive a work van with ladders on the top.  Around 5 p.m. or so, we could hear his truck making all kinds of noise as it got closer to home.

When we heard his truck, you would think an actual king was arriving.  We would shout and cheer and get all excited.  The girls and I would greet Daddy at the door with hugs and kisses and crazy happiness.

We treated him like he was a warrior returning home from battle.

Today, my girlies are 7, 9 and 11.  When Daddy comes home, we still greet him with excitement.

How can you teach your children to cheer for Daddy?

Think of something your hubby does that the family can cheer about.

Maybe it's Mommy who comes home from work and Daddy is cooking dinner.
You could rave about the dinner that your hubby made.

Maybe Daddy works from home.
When Daddy comes out from his office, there could be hugs and kisses and squeezes. 

Maybe your hubby takes the family out to dinner on Friday nights.
You could teach the kiddos to get excited and thank Daddy for the special treat.

Honey... I'm Home!

HubbyHubby loves to see me wear jeans and a t-shirt.

This is my least favorite outfit in the world.

My old beat-up jeans are his favorite.

But here's how I make him happy.

During the day, I wear whatever I want (always put together, never sloppy).

At 4:00, before HubbyHubby comes home, I run upstairs and put on those old beat-up jeans and a white t-shirt.

I add lip gloss and perfume, and I pinch my cheeks to make them red.


Ask your hubby what he loves to see you in.

Cuddle up next to him with some clothing catalogues. Show him outfits and ask him to tell you which ones are his favorites.

Make a conscious effort to catch and keep his attention.

Expect Him to Be Right

After I submit to HubbyHubby in a given category or situation, then I expect him to be right.

• I believe that the decicion he made was the right decision.
• I back him up. 
• I encourage him.  
• I do all I can to see that he shines and that things go well.

What decision has your hubby made that gives you the opportunity to expect him to be right?

Vanilla Sex

Vanilla sex.

Let's call her Kate.

Kate loves sex from the rafters.  The crazier, the more wild, the better.

Her hubby likes vanilla sex (basic, quiet, intercourse--no frills).

Kate gives it to him. Just the way he likes.

She makes him so happy with the best vanilla sex she can do.

Slowly, Kate's adding in little bits of the "kinky fuckery."


This Week:

This week, ask your hubby what kind of sex he wants. Most women don't even know.

• Vanilla?
• Him on top?
• You on top?
• Him behind you while he grabs your hips?
• You on top facing away from him?
• Sideways pretzel?
• Leap frog?
• Wheelbarrow?

Get a sex position app or a sex position book. Show it to him, and ask what he likes. And then do it.

Those Panties

Last night, HubbyHubby noticed me in my panties.

He said, "You wearin' those?"

I looked at my panties.  They were okay, but I knew exactly what he meant.

He wanted to see me in my lace panties.

So, into the closet I went--to change immediately.

I've said it before: men are visual.


Show him the panties he wants to see.

Because under those cute panties is the piece of ass he wants.

But I Have Kids

Children are a reward, a blessing and a joy.

And marriage is the center of the family.

Therefore, your husband comes first. He takes precedence. And that means to make sure his needs are met.

And how is that done?

A long time ago, I asked HubbyHubby, "How do I make sure your needs are met without acting like your mother?"

He said, "Just ask me, 'Is there anything you need today?'"

That's simple. Every morning and every evening, I always ask HubbyHubby, "Babe, what can I do for you?" or "Is there anything you need today?"


This Week:

What's your hubby need? Go on and ask him.

Date Night

Tonight is date night.  Hallelujah!

HubbyHubby and I go on a date every week.  And, boy, do I look forward to it.

I plan my outfit days in advance.  I line up a sitter and make sure the kiddos have their favorite dinner and treats.

When the girls were little, we dated around nap times and nursing schedules.  The dates were short, but we made them happen.

If we couldn't get out of the house for a date, then we would have a candlelight-picnic date or a movie-and-popcorn date--anything to carve out a special, special time and place for just us.

Another trick to make it special is to wear a special outfit, something different than what you wear every day--maybe some different accessories, like an evening bag, jewelry, heels, perfume--something, anything, that shows hubby that this time is special and you are thinking of impressing him.

Here's a list of date night ideas:

• Dinner & a movie
• Hiking
• Bike ride to town and having a drink or coffee
• Batting cage
• Mini-golf
• Driving range
• Dancing
• Tennis
• Walk from restaurant to restaurant, and sit at the bar and order an appetizer at each.
• Skiing
• Boating
• Secretly send the kids to their grandparents or a friend's sleepover, and when hubby comes home, have a candlelight dinner waiting.
• Go for a walk and window-shop.

What kinds of date nights do you and your hubby go on? 
What kinds of dates did you go on before you were married?

The Center of the Universe

Our marriage is the center of our family. And our kiddos are like little satellites orbiting around us.

HubbyHubby and I have three school-age girls. We both work and have full lives.

When the girls were 1, 3 and 5, we started getting babysitters for date night. At first, the girls did not like Mommy and Daddy going out. We kept our dates short, and made sure the girls had a great sitter and lots of fun activities planned.

Can you go out with your hubby this Friday? You've got little babies at home? No problem.

Plan a special something for your hubby:

• Put the little ones to bed and make a simple romantic picnic with candles.
• Light candles and rub your hubby's shoulders or feet.
• Have a popcorn-and-movie night with your hubby.

Start a list of ways to carve out special time for your marriage every day. 

You can do it. And don't forget the panties!

My Hero, Part II

Here are a dozen more times when I told HubbyHubby he was my hero:

1.  He unloaded the dishwasher.

2.  He made the bed.

3.  He took the kids on a bike ride and swimming.

4.  He had a hugely successful business meeting with a client.

5.  He scheduled a camping vacation for the family.

6.  He volunteered to be a chaperone for the 4th-grade field trip.

7.  He balanced the checkbook and shared the budget with me.

8.  He organized the garage.

9.  He read a bedtime story to our 1st-grader.

10.  He swinged on the hammock with me after dinner and we listened to the kids play.

11.  He listened to our 2nd-grader read.

12.  He cooked our dinner out on the grill.

The list goes on and on.


This Week:

Pay close attention for opportunities to tell your hubby that he is your hero.

Get Out Your Pom-Poms

HubbyHubby loves, loves, loves football.

During game season, I make a good, honest effort to watch every game, right by his side.

I learn about HubbyHubby's favorite team and his favorite players, celebrate with him when his team wins, and I'm sad when they lose.

HubbyHubby loves to have nachos or Sloppy Joes on game day, so I'm always planning ahead for his favorite meals.

I'm interested in the games and listen to everything he has to say about them.

I adapt to HubbyHubby.

Weather it's football, "Star Trek," scuba diving, sports, video games, biking, movies--whatever it is--we adapt to our hubbies. Show a little interest.


What does your hubby love to do?

Get out your pom-poms and adapt to your hubby.

The Mother's Day Couch

On Mother's Day, HubbyHubby and the girls came home and surprised me with a brand new couch.

But it was NOT the couch I wanted; in fact, I hated it.

I smiled, clapped my hands, jumped up and down, threw my arms around HubbyHubby, kissed him, squeezed him, and thanked him with all my heart and soul.

HubbyHubby's heart and life and feelings are more important to me than any THING in this world.

The next time your hubby surprises you with something, can you remember to be thankful and love him up instead of tearing him down?

Playing with the Kids

HubbyHubby plays with the kids.

Thank God.

Thank God that he loves spending time with the kids. One: it's freeing. Two: It's a genuine characteristic of a man that turns me on. I love seeing the kiddos surround HubbyHubby and play--just play--and seeing all of them truly enjoying themselves, being with each other. I know I've got it good when I witness those precious moments.

And ladies... there's something paleo, primal, and basic-instinct about a man playing with your kids. I get all tingly. Honestly, it's a turn-on when HubbyHubby plays with the kids.

This Week:

When your hubby is playing with the kids, take a long look at that good man.

Top 3 Keys in Marriage

1.  Sex
2.  Finances
3.  Communication

There you have it.  HubbyHubby and I keep these three in check, and we are good.

1. Sex

HubbyHubby wants it eight times a week. My number is different than his. We talk it out, and decide (according to our proper arrangement) what works for our marriage. Yes, ladies. Men want sex all the time (unless they're eating or, in HubbyHubby's case, watching football).

Men between the ages 19 and 25 think about sex at least once every five minutes.
Men over 25 think about sex at least once every 10 minutes.*

We must give them what they need. What's the saying? "If you like the food being served from your kitchen, you don't need to eat out."

2. Finances

This is a big one. Decide on a budget. Review it weekly and monthly. Live within your means. Stick to it.

I like reading Dave Ramsey at http://www.daveramsey.com

3. Communication

Schedule time to talk every day. 
Talk about what is important to each of you. 
Talk about your goals, dreams and desires. 
Talk about your marriage. Talk about your week coming up. 
Talk about your plans for the day. 
Talk about sex. 
Not sure what to talk about? 
Try talking about finances. Ask, "Do we have a budget?" That'll start the ball rolling! 
Or try something more direct and simple: 
Try, "I love when you hold my hand." 
Or try, "I love when you make the bed in the morning while I'm in the shower." 
Or, "I love when you notice my outfit or my shoes." 
Or, "I love when you open the car door for me." 
Or, "I love when you snuggle up to me at night." 
"Do you like spooning? Or making a cuddlepuddle?" Communicate. 
And remember, men like short and sweet stuff. 
Give your hubby a yes-or-no question to answer: "Do you like it when I bite your earlobe?" That's an easy opener to communication. 
Talk. Talk to each other. Talk.


* Source: Fisher, T. D., Moore, Z. T., & Pittenger, M. (2012)

7 Words That Changed My Life

We have one vehicle, a huge Dodge Ram truck.  For me, it's very difficult to drive.

We've had it for five years, and each and every year, I've crashed into something while in reverse: a light pole, a Volkswagen, a Subaru, a Jaguar, a concrete wall in the parking garage.

And each and every time I go to HubbyHubby with great apologies, he says, "You can do no wrong, my love."

I've adopted the same thinking about him. 

He sometimes doesn't do things they way I expected or asked--buys the wrong laundry detergent, arrives late for a school event, pays a bill late, yadda-yadda-yadda.

I don't bitch, nag or complain.  I say to myself, "He can do no wrong."

This attitude keeps me thankful and keeps the peace.

The next time your hubby doesn't do something exactly the way you planned, try to say to yourself, "He can do no wrong."

My Hero

It was 98 degrees here in Boulder yesterday.

Around 6:30 p.m., HubbyHubby was upstairs relaxing on the loveseat and watching TV.

I went upstairs and sat next to him.

It was like an oven in that room.

I asked, "Baby, do you think it's hot up here?"

I'm not sure if he even answered me.

Next thing I know, he's outside at the air conditioner, washing the fins, then downstairs, then upstairs fiddling with vents, then in the utility room looking at the furnace and duct work.

At 9:00 p.m. in bed, I cuddle up and say, "Baby, it is so nice and cool up here now. Thanks for fixin' the AC. You are my hero."

It may have been a small task for him, but letting him know he is my hero makes him feel like a king.


The Fine Print:

When you follow my blog and treat your hubby like a king, he will move heaven and earth to make sure you're comfortable and happy, always.

Solution-Minded

This past week, I was very emotional and sad over a situation.

I went to HubbyHubby and cried and talked and talked and talked.

He immediately went into "solution mode" and started to help solve my problem.

I love him for trying to solve my situation, but what I needed was for him to listen.

Here's why:

• We are emotional and we love to talk it out.
• Men are black and white, and they love a mission to fix something.

When you need him to just listen and hold you, say just that: "Babe, I just need you to listen."

When you need a solution, ask him for one.

Tip:

Tell him about your problem, ask him to listen and provide a solution--tomorrow. That way, he'll really be listening, and he'll feel excited to be on a mission to solve your problem. And you have an entire day without being bothered by him trying to solve your problem.

Be clear.  Then, thank him for being your hero.

If He's Not Horny... Make Him a Sandwich

Men are simple, straightforward, and not complicated.

Their top wants are sex and food.

When I asked HubbyHubby how many days a week he would like to have sex, he said, "Eight." Without hesitation. Eight.

Eight? My number is different than his (eh, lower), but I always keep his number in mind... daily!

Lots of sex is the norm for most hubbies.


If he's not horny, make him a sandwich.

Happy Hour with Friends

How are we going to pay for it?

Tonight, I went out to celebrate a friend's birthday.

During happy hour with my friends, one gal told us all that she and her hubby were 100% out of debt.

Nice.

She said, "Yeah, I wanted to go on a cruise to celebrate my graduation and my degree, but my hubby said, 'How are we gonna pay for it?'"

She replied, "On a credit card."

He said, "No."

She said, "Okay. Yeah, you're right."


This Week:

Listen to your hubby.  Say, "Yes," and agree with his decisions and support him.

Don't sulk, bitch or nag about what you don't get or don't agree with.  He's probably been thinking about your shared, long-term financial goals for years. And an idea for a cruise that you just came up with simply might not be feasible.  By all means, tell him your celebration ideas. Don't hold back. But...

Remember, hubby makes the final decision.

Iron Man

While camping this weekend, there was lots of heavy stuff to haul in and out of the truck and cabin.

Some things I could lift, and some things I asked HubbyHubby to lift.

Husbands need to feel strong--not necessarily be strong, just feel strong.


This Week:

What strong, manly job can you ask your hubby to do for you?

Here are some ideas:

1. Ask him to move a heavy object for you, such as a heavy planter or a piece of furniture, like the bed. 
2. Ask him to move... no... lift the couch, so you can vacuum under it.
3. Ask your hubby to move something dirty, like a heavy rock or tree log out of the garden.
4. Ask him to take a heavy box out to the garage or basement for storage. Doesn't matter what's in it. Fill it with something. 

Then say, "Oh, baby, that box was so heavy. You are so strong. Thank you so much. Here's a cold drink."  Then give him a sweet kiss and a pat on the ass and say, "You're my iron man."  :)

I know what you're thinking.

It sounds like mistreatment. Or it may sound stupid, or just plain wrong. But men need to feel strong, and they need us to tell them that they are, because they are indeed.

How Do You Dress?

When HubbyHubby and I were dating, every outfit I wore was chosen with intentional effort.

I dressed to get and keep his attention.

Men are visual.

After 12 years of marriage, I keep up on my attractiveness for HubbyHubby.

Have you ever walked down the street and your hubby or other men turn their heads to look at a pretty woman?

Be that woman.

Dress nice for your hubby.  Choose and lay out your outfits the night before.

Too many of us let our appearance go, especially when we become mothers.

Question:

Remember when you were a sexy wife, before you were a mother?

HubbyHubby Handy Man

When something around the house breaks or leaks, I call HubbyHubby. He's good at those things. And I think that's sexy.

If HubbyHubby wasn't in my life, my house would be crap, or I'd be broke from calling service contractors.

Now, don't get me wrong. HubbyHubby is a fully-equipped man. A man's man. He can do all things. But let me tell you, when he fixes something, especially something I broke, I think it's... well... sexy.

And I tell him. "Babe, thank you so much for fixing that for me. I love you. And... I like that hammer you got."

Two things good happened just then. HubbyHubby is pumped up, and the house is back in order.

It may be a cliché, but I love my handy-HubbyHubby. I love that he can do things, things I can't. And that I can do things, things he can't. But, in general, around the house, HubbyHubby takes care of things. And that's a man.

Ladies... do you appreciate the things HubbyHubby takes care of? If you do, show it.

The Worst Thing You Can Do as a Wife

The worst thing you can do as a wife is to never be happy.

HubbyHubby lives to make me happy.

He asks me several times a day, "Are you happy?"  "How you doin'?"  "Did you take a break today?"  "Did you have fun today?"

Husbands live and breathe to know that their wives are happy, and that they are the source of that happiness. A man likes the way it feels when he knows that his woman is feeling great, and hate the way it feels when she's sad, and will do anything to change that. 


Your Job:

1. Be happy.
2. Tell your hubby (often) that you are happy, and that he is the source of that happiness.

If your hubby makes you smile, more comfortable or fulfilled, tell him. Give him a smile, a peck on the cheek, an unexpected grab, or a slap on the butt. God, they love that little appreciation.


Just Between You and Me:

Yes, I know we are not happy all the time. We have bad days and sad times. But feelings come and go. We can decide to be happy or sad. Try to resolve your temporary situation and decide to be happy.

Sometimes, I even go to HubbyHubby and say, "I'm sad. I need someone to talk to." And he knows from past conversations to just listen and hold me.

Let's Do the Bills

Today I told HubbyHubby that we need to sit down and do the bills.  Argh. 

HubbyHubby said, "Let's make a date out of it."

I took it from there.

I got some fancy wine, cheese, crackers and fruit.

Put the kiddos to bed.

Set the table up with a candle, our little spread, and all the bills.

The bills were stressful, but we made each other laugh and plowed through them.

What daunting task needs to be done?
How can you make it fun and less stressful for your hubby?

#1 on My List

I love to-do lists.

There are a million things on my list on any given day.

Priority #1 on my list: Make sure the needs of HubbyHubby are met, and that he's taken care of.

Priority #2 on my list: Attend to everything else (kids, job, parents, PTA, hobbies, yadda-yadda-yadda).

Back to #1. HubbyHubby needs:

• Food
• Sex... or is it sex, then food? We'll get back to that later.
• Football
• "Gold Rush" (a TV show about a bunch of fellas digging for gold)
• Companionship
• Love
• Shoulder massages
• Attention
• Appreciation
• Kindness
• Words of affirmation
• Praise
• Encouragement  
• Man time: TV, guys' night out, football, cigars and bourbon. He loves a good Kentucky bourbon.

The list actually goes on and on.

What does your hubby need?

Start a list of what he needs. Don't know? Ask him:

"Hey, hubby, what do you need?" 

Make sure he comes first on your "list of things to do" today and every day.

70 Years Together

This morning, my neighbor informed me that three married couples in my daughter's class got divorced over the previous school year.

Yikes!  I was shocked.

So... let's think for a moment. Let's imagine that you're 90 years old. And you and your hubby have been together for 70 years, and you're sitting together watching the sun set, and sipping lemonade.

The two of you have had many ups and downs, children, fun, vacations, homes, and much, much more.

Ask yourself:

• Your hubby is the man you want to be with when you're 90. Right?
• He is the man you made your marriage vows to. Yes?
• He's a keeper. Right?

But how do you keep him? Ah, that's the question.

Read my blog.

Follow the steps each week to improve yourself and make your husband first in your life.

Your reward will be exceedingly, abundantly above all you could ask for or dream of.

The man you have right now is a good man.  He adores you and loves your children.

It's up to you to make him first in your life. Get to "70 years together."


Quick Tip:

Every day this week, walk up to your hubby, wrap your arms around him, squeeze him tight, and thank God for this amazing man.

A good man is so very hard to find, but easy to keep.

10 Rules to Live By

Well, my friends, marriage comes down to 10 rules:

• two rules for the wife to follow, and
• eight rules for the hubby to follow.

Are you ready?  Here they are...

Wife:

1. Submit yourself to your husband. "Submit" is a loving obedience by proper arrangement and deliberate decision.
2. Revere your husband. Honor and esteem him.

I know these are huge shockers. But hang in there. Don't leave just yet. Keep reading.

Husband:

1.  Be the head of your wife. You're the leader, the captain of the ship.

2.  Love your wife.

• Have an active concern for her well-being.
• Cherish and revere her.
• Make much of your wife as your set her up on the pedestal of your heart.
• Set her apart in a very special way.
• Cover her with love in every way possible.

Ladies... when HubbyHubby treats me this way, I am like melted butter. I would do ANYTHING for him, which includes submit and revere.

3.  Love your wife as you would your own body.

• Look out for her health, well-being, and comfort.
• Care for and encourage her.

4.  Nourish your wife.

• Nurture her.
• Provide what is necessary for her to be strong.
• Promote her growth and health.

5.  Cherish your wife.

• Oversee her tenderly.
• Protect and care for her.
• Treat her with warmth and kindness.
• Provide a warm, tender and caring environment for her.
• Soften her with the tenderness of your heart.
• Cherish her with tender love and care. 
• Cover her with warmth and protection.

 Holy smokes... I'm weak in the knees just typing this stuff out.

6.  Leave your father and mother, and leave your parents' oversight in regard to your marriage.

7.  Be joined to your wife.

• Be glued or welded together.
• Be responsible to keep the relationship tight and together.
• Keep it growing.  

 8.  Be one flesh with your wife. Be like-minded.


Those are the 10 rules. HubbyHubby and I follow the rules as best as we can, and our marriage is strong and our love is wonderful.

Sex. When? Now?!

Maple sap dripping into a collection bucket.  

It has been said, "A man's sap rises in the morning."

This is actually HubbyHubby's quote.

He wakes up happy and horny as ever.

This could be 2 a.m., 4 a.m. or 5 a.m.

This was an issue, and I had to learn to control my mind.

When HubbyHubby is ready, I make up my mind to be ready, too.


This Week:

Ask your hubby when he is most horny, and make sure you are ready to make him happy.

Because you are the only woman in the world who can meet your hubby's needs, right?

Prance Around Naked

Last night, HubbyHubby caught me naked while I was getting ready for bed.

When he saw me, his face lit up and he said, "Well, that's a sight--just standin' there all naked."

He put his arms around my waist and.... yadda yadda yadda.

Now, my new trick is to "get caught" naked.

I do it on purpose and HubbyHubby loves it every time he "finds" me naked.

He's tickled because he thinks he's got great timing.

Little does he know, I plan it all out, every time.

Getting dressed, taking a shower, changing outfits, getting ready for date night--any chance I get.


Try it. Your hubby will go bananas.

HubbyHubby is King

When HubbyHubby comes home from work, I:

• stop what I'm doing;
• greet him at the door;
• give him a big hug and kiss; and
• get him his favorite cold drink.

I'm excited to see him and make sure he knows it!

• I listen to him talk about his day.
• I tell him how smart and ingenious he is.
• I serve him his favorite dinner.

HubbyHubby is treated like a KING.