He's Looking at Other Women When We're Out Together

Have you ever been out with your Hubby only to catch him turning his head to look at another woman?

How does that make you feel?

Yep. I understand. So, here's something to think about: Be that woman he's looking at. Be her. What happens if you dress to catch his eye. Dress to turn his head to you. Dress to get his attention. 

Why? Because men are visual.

What are you wearing right now? Look down at your outfit. What do you have on?

Do you know what your husband likes to look at? Do you know what he likes to see you in?

This week, plan some time to sit down with your Hubby. Make him his favorite drink (coffee, beer, lemonade, bourbon, etc.), and show him some fashion magazines, store catalogues, or outfits on the web.

Ask him what he likes. Ask. Don't take too long though. Just 5 minutes.

I have two favorite places where I love to shop. When those catalogs show up in the mail, I flip through with HubbyHubby, and he tells me what he likes. Lead him on with, "Hm. That's nice." Or, "Hm, she's looks cute in that. Yes?"

Within time and budget, I order or buy those outfits. Then--and this is HubbyHubby's favorite part--after the kids are in bed, I put on a fashion show for him. I make sure he sits where he can catch a glimpse of me changing. It's a fun little special time for us together, and now I'm his "head-turner."

Each week, plan your outfits so that your appearance is well kept.

No time? Make time. Remember, men are visual. What you wear is important to your Hubby.

Sex Again? Now? Really!?

There is a certain time of day when HubbyHubby likes to "get it on."

With three little ones at home, timing isn't always easy.

In fact, there are more than a million excuses NOT to "get it on."

However,... I make it happen. I make arrangements. I schedule it in (so to speak). I don't make excuses.

Ladies.... give your hubby the sex he wants at his favorite time of day.

Her are some tips and tricks:

• Babies at home? Have sex when they are napping or asleep.

• Too tired? Take a nap.

• School age children at home? Put on a movie. Set them up with books on tape. Set out fun breakfast foods, crayons and coloring books and tell them, "Mommy and Daddy are sleeping in tomorrow."

• Put them to bed early.

• Too much to do? Do your hubby first! The rest will wait.

What tricks and tips do you have to make sure you and your hubby have sex?

Master and Commander

After watching the movie Master and Commander, for the 10th time (argh), HubbyHubby says, "I'm your master and commander." And winks. 

Ah, boy. 

Turns out, he really likes to be called Master and Commander. I'm not kidding. He programmed his iPhone to call him that.

So, what does your hubby like to be called?

• Sweetie pie
• Honey
• Babe
• Babycakes
• Cowboy
• My hero
• Lug nut 
• Shnookums
• Muffin cakes
• Hottie biscotti
• Italian stallion
• Lover boy
• Sargent sexy 
• Stud muffin
• Hunny bun
• Hot stuff

There's nothing more boring than calling your hubby by his first name. Gosh, I hate hearing that. It's such a great opportunity to be creative and get your hub's attention. 

What do you call you hubby? Is it what he likes to be called? Do you even know what he likes? 

Ask him.